Most traditional marriage counseling today just flat out DOES NOT WORK and is FAILING couples, children, families, and our future generations every single day.
Sitting there in the therapist office talking about your problems, reminding the two of you about what’s NOT working, and the connection you DON’T have DOES NOT WORK.
Rehashing the past over and over every week - just DABBLING at therapy sessions - DOES NOT WORK.
Talk therapy is fine for expressing your emotions and having someone listen to you. But it’s completely ineffective in helping you create the healthy and loving marriage you want.
The fact is, there’s a big difference between talking about your problems, and solving them.