This week, we are continuing our 5-Part Series, The 5 Losing Strategies In Communication and in today’s episode, we are talking about the number 4 Losing Strategy and it’s a NASTY one: RETALIATION.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How there’s nothing that HARSHNESS ACHIEVES that LOVING FIRMNESS can’t achieve better.
  • How retaliation is actually just revenge.
  • The difference between overt and covert retaliation.
  • Specific examples of how retaliation shows up in marriage.
  • What to do about this losing strategy and how to get rid of it for good!

See you on the episode!


Kelly and Ned

Founders of The Relationship Loft